Walking the Walk

A FaithFashionista Guide

to

Godly Friendship

by

Heather Hunt

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Walking the Walk:

A FaithFashionista Guide to Godly Friendship

by Heather Hunt

Copyright © 2012 by Heather King Hunt

FaithFashionistaᵀᴹ by Heather King Hunt

Scripture passages taken from the

HOLY BIBLE, King James Version

Cover Design:  Heather King Hunt

Illustration Credits:

© Zubada |Dreamstime.com

“Female Legs”

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This study is designed to be covered over a period of six weeks.  Due to the electronic format, it is also recommended you have a journal, electronic notepad, composition book, or notebook to use as you answer questions and record your thoughts throughout the study.

Introduction

Helen Keller once said, “Walking with a friend in the dark is better than walking alone in the light.”  What profound insight into the relationship between friends!

Indeed, friendship is one of the most treasured…yet forsaken…things in many of our lives.  It is the barricade against the storms of life we trust in and the hand of comfort in times of need.  But has a preoccupation with our own wants and needs and the reliance on our friends to help us face the trials of life blinded us to the reciprocity which is the base of a true friend relationship?  In other words, are we so wrapped up in our own dramas, we fail to see our friends have wants and needs of their own?

For instance, has a friend ever given you an exasperated look and said, “You should only walk a mile in my shoes”?  You may even recall telling someone the same thing.  What exactly does the phrase mean, though?  Are we expected to take her suggestion literally...throw on the clogs and start walking?  We may not be able to truly walk in her shoes, toss whatever baggage she is carting around over our own shoulders and hit the road, but we have to learn how to make ourselves available and how to recognize the ways we can, not only be a worldly friend, but how we can make a nurturing, faith-based contribution to her life.  Only then can we truly be an empathetic friend.

Let’s take a moment, however, to consider what it might be like to actually take a walk in our friend’s shoes.  Literally.  What if a concept which sounds almost comical is actually just the thing our friendships need?  We all know it is impossible to fully understand what our friends face in their daily lives...at work or at home...during those alone times or in times of strife…when answers or solutions are more complex than a simple phone call.

But what would happen if we could actually feel her pain?  How much better would our friendship fare if we could understand her thoughts and fears…or even face her problems?  What do you think we would discover if we could place ourselves in our friend’s situation…if we could take a burden from her and experience her sadness or despair?  What if, in turn, we might also experience her joy and success?  What an amazing learning experience to gain such insight into the limitations…and victories…in the lives of our friends!  Sounds like the definition of a true friend, right?

As Christian women, we are frequently encouraged to “get to the heart of the matter”.  In truth, when our friend throws down the “take a walk” gauntlet, she is simply imploring us to see where she is coming from.  To see things from her perspective.  To burn away the chaff, so to speak, and help her move toward some resolution.

But what do we actually do when our friends turn to us for help?  Our friends have chosen us for a reason, right?  Some of us may have mutual interests or life experiences which have facilitated our relationships.  Others simply enjoy being around one another.  The relationship between friends can be summed up rather simply:  Someone enjoys having a relationship with us and he/she wants us to, in turn, have an interest in their well-being...and a sincere desire to help them when a need arises.  But is our involvement truly helpful, or does our input simply confuse the issues our friend is facing, or worse, lead her away from the only source of absolute truth: God’s Word?

So what is the solution?  How can we cultivate friendships based on respect, responsibility, and the recognition that our relationship goals have to be a mutual undertaking?

How can we place ourselves in our friend’s shoes and make a difference in her life?  More specifically, how can we allow God to guide our steps as we build friendships according to His direction in our lives?

It should come as no surprise that it is difficult to get to the heart of the matter when approaching issues within friendships without first focusing on the will of God?  Fortunately for all of us, God is a multi-faceted Savior who has just the right answers to our problems.  Not only is He powerful and almighty, but He is gracious, compassionate, and forgiving.  He is the most perfect example of friendship you will ever encounter.  His Word is a wonderful testimony to friendship...the ultimate standard...the ideal manual on friendship which is, undeniably, the most detailed, straightforward advice you could ever hope to receive.  God is able!  He can help you navigate every situation in your life because He loves you!  He gave His only son to die on a cross for your sins!  He desires to have a personal relationship with you!  He wants to be your “BFF”...your “Best Friend Forever”!

With this in mind, I ask: Do you want to see a difference in your life?  Do you want a personal relationship with your Savior?  Do you want your friendships to be based on the truths so evident in the Word of God?  If so, then I would like to DARE you to be different.  Let’s get started!

In using the DARE mnemonic, I have brought an aspect of my career in nursing to the table.  DARE has been a much utilized tool by nurses over the years to aid them in remembering information to be included in the documentation in patient records.  D (Data), A (Assessment/Action), R (Response), E (Evaluation).  For the purpose of this study, however, we will use the mnemonic to gain a better understanding of the lives of a group of amazing women from the Bible.

In the Data section, we will describe each woman, her family or lack of support system, her environment, and the situation in which she is placed.  We will also look at any other variables leading to the circumstance in which the woman finds herself.

For the Assessment/Action section of our study, we will attempt to gain more insight into the thoughts, actions, and motivations of the women.  It’s kind of like putting together the background information and forming a picture of what life must have been like for the women of that time.

The Response section will deal with how the story plays out.  We will see how the plots of these amazing stories unravel through the divine work of God.

Finally, in the Evaluation section, we will look at the conclusion of the stories and how each woman was transformed…or not…by life events and personal choices.

The following lessons are designed to be done over a six-week period.  It is also encouraged for you to keep a journal as you go through the study in order to answer the questions and write your personal thoughts in the Life Application sections.

In the lessons, we will study the lives of six women found in the Bible: Rahab, Orpah, Esther, Deborah, Hannah, and Tabitha.  Taken in part, these women each have amazing life stories; however, when seen as a whole, they showcase the entire spiritual journey we, as Christian women, take on the road to salvation and service.  Their stories are a transformation from reviled sinner to beloved, devoted servant of Christ.  At times, the road is rocky.  The way is not evident.  There are even a few wrong turns.  But in the end, it is a clear path...a straight path...and a path which leads us to the One who deserves our lives...our ALL.

Over the course of the study, as you take the stories of these women into your hearts and minds, it is my hope you will find aspects of their lives which parallel your own.  That through their stories, as recorded in the divine Word of God, you can uncover a better way to live.  A way leading you down a path pleasing to our heavenly Father.  A “walk in her shoes” which will influence your personal walk with Christ and overflow into the lives of your family and friends.

So...let’s take that walk...

WEEK ONE

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Escaping the Bondage of Sin:

Rahab

Have you ever heard the phrase, “You must love yourself before you can truly love others?”  At first, this adage borders on selfishness, but if you look a little deeper, the truth of the words will become more evident.

Speaking in basic, girl-to-girl language, before you can be a friend to someone, you have to come to grips with your own life.  You have to recognize your assets (and your faults), and you have to clarify the gifts and qualities which make you worthy of friendship.  If you cannot see yourself for who you are, then what you will have to offer a friend is far below the standard for a satisfactory relationship.  In other words, you have to be the best you can be not only for yourself...but for others, as well.

In this section of our study, we will focus on the life of Rahab.  We will explore her past, her thoughts and desires, and the culmination of events which ultimately change her life.  First, however, let’s take a moment to do a little reflection...literally.  I want you to find a mirror and take a good look at yourself.  Seriously!  You need to just bear with me on this.  I’ll make my point soon enough!

Mirrors ready?  Okay, for those of you who actually have your little reflective surfaces, let’s take another look.  Examine all of those laugh lines.  Focus on those dark circles under your eyes.  Tilt your head to the side and glimpse those nasty crow’s feet you thought would never appear...the same ones those painful injections were supposed to have obliterated.  Don’t pull any punches, ladies!  For the smokers among us, look at the little lines around your mouth your addiction has wrought.  For the sun-lover, bask in the glory of the brown spots which have replaced the radiant glow of sun-kissed skin.  Believe me...you’re not alone in your anguish.  I am certainly feeling the pain of my own reflection, as well!

An honest look can be a real eye-opener, right?

Now, even though you might be reluctant after that earlier look, I want you to return to your image and “look yourself in the eye.”  Is the person you see in the mirror someone who is truly worthy of God’s love and forgiveness?  When you think of all the ways you have failed yourself, your family, and your God, can you even imagine you deserve the grace which is so free if we simply choose to turn to God and seek forgiveness?

If we are honest with ourselves, not one of us is truly worthy of that precious gift.  What is so amazing about our God, however, is that He sees past what we are and have been and recognizes the person we can become through Him.

Now read along or open your Bible to the following passage of scripture in the book of Joshua.  It tells of the woman, Rahab, who is up to her neck in sin.  Surprisingly, though, you will find this woman is the tool God utilizes to accomplish a great and mighty feat.

(Joshua 2:1-2:21)

“And Joshua the son of Nun sent out of Shittim two men to spy secretly, saying, Go view the land, even in Jericho.  And they went, and came into an harlot’s house, named Rahab, and lodged there.  And it was told the king of Jericho, saying, Behold, there came men in hither to night of the children of Israel to search out the country.  And the king of Jericho sent unto Rahab, saying, Bring forth the men that are come to thee, which are entered into thine house: for they be come to search out all of the country.  And the woman took the two men, and hid them, and said thus, There came men unto me, but I wist not whence they were: And it came to pass about the time of shutting of the gate, when it was dark, that the men went out: whither the men went I wot not: pursue after them quickly; for ye shall overtake them.  But she had brought them up to the roof of the house, and hid them with the stalks of flax, which she had laid in order upon the roof.  And the men pursued after them the way to Jordan unto the fords: and as soon as they which pursued after them were gone out, they shut the gate.  And before they were laid down, she came up unto them upon the roof; And she said unto the men, I know that the Lord hath given you the land, and that your terror is falleth upon us, and that all the inhabitants of the land faint because of you.  For we have heard how the Lord dried up the water of the Red sea for you, when ye came out of Egypt; and what ye did unto the two kings of the Amorites, that were on the other side of the Jordan, Sihon and Og, whom ye utterly destroyed.  And as soon as we had heard these things, our hearts did melt, neither did there remain any more courage in any man, because of you: for the Lord you God, he is God in heaven above, and in earth beneath.  Now therefore, I pray you, swear unto me by the Lord, since I have shewed you kindness, that ye will also shew kindness unto my father’s house, and give me a true token: And that ye will save alive my father, and my mother, and my brethren, and my sisters, and all that they have, and deliver our lives from death.  And the men answered her, Our life for yours, if ye utter not this our business.  And it shall be, when the Lord hath given us the land, that we will deal kindly and truly with thee.  Then she let them down by a cord through the window, for her house was upon the town wall, and she dwelt upon the wall.  And she said unto them, Get you to the mountain, lest the pursuers meet you; and hide yourselves there three days, until the pursuers be returned: and afterward may ye go your way.  And the men said unto her, We will be blameless of this thine oath which thou hast made us swear.  Behold when we come into the land, thou shalt bind this line of scarlet thread in the window which thou didst let us down by: and thou shalt bring thy father, and thy mother, and thy brethren, and all thy father’s household, home unto thee.  And it shall be that whosoever shall go out of the doors of thy house into the street, his blood shall be upon his head, and we will be guiltless: and whosoever shall be with thee in the house, his blood shall be on our head, if any hand be upon him.  And if thou utter this our business, then we will be quit of thine oath which thou hast made us to swear.  And she said, According unto your words, so be it.  And she sent them away, and they departed: and she bound the scarlet line in the window.”

(Joshua 6:21-25)

“And they utterly destroyed all that was in the city, both man and woman, young and old, and ox, and sheep, and ass, with the edge of the sword.  But Joshua had said unto the two men that had spied out the country, Go into the harlot’s house, and bring out thence the woman, and all that she hath, as ye sware unto her.  And the young men that were spies went in, and brought out Rahab, and her father, and her mother, and her brethren, and all that she had; and they brought out all her kindred, and left them without the camp of Israel.  And they burnt the city with fire, and all that was therein.  And Joshua saved Rahab the harlot alive, and her father’s household, and all that she had; and she dwelleth in Israel even unto this day; because she hid the messengers, which Joshua sent to spy out Jericho.”

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Let’s D.A.R.E. to be different for a few moments and take a more in depth look at Rahab.

Data:

In the following questions, we will examine the basic circumstances in the story of Rahab.  (Please feel free to write your answers in your journal.):

1. How would you describe Rahab?

2. What, in simple terms, was her profession?

3. If Rahab were your neighbor, what would be your opinion of her?

4. Would you even invite Rahab over for dinner?

5. Where did Rahab live, and how would you describe her city?

6. How did the Israel spies enter her life?

7. What were the choices she had to make with regard to her situation and the spies?

Assessment:

The next questions will focus of the situation and Rahab’s thoughts and actions.

1. What obstacles or dangers did Rahab face while helping the Israelite spies?

2. What was Rahab’s request to the Israelite spies?

3. How did she accomplish her mission?

4. Rahab was instructed to place a red cord outside her window.  Does this bring to mind another Biblical symbol?

Response:

Let’s examine the outcome of Rahab’s involvement in the battle of Jericho.

1. What happened to the city of Jericho?

2. What happened to Rahab and her family?

Evaluation:

This is the time to sum up the story...focus on the conclusion:

1. How did Rahab’s diligence in helping the Israelite spies accomplish God’s plan?

2. What did she give up, or sacrifice, by making the decision to betray her countrymen?

3. What blessings did Rahab receive as a result of her faithfulness to the promise made to the Israelites?

Life Application:  Are You Still Hostage of Your Past?

As our Heavenly Father, God does not desire for us to live in perpetual strife.  Think about it in worldly terms.  As parents, how many of us want our children to suffer even the least of pains or disappointments?  None of us!  How much more, then, does God want to see us prosper?

Harboring on regrets about a past sinful lifestyle does nothing but impede your spiritual progress.  When you continue to focus on things in your past God has already forgiven, you are giving Satan a leg up in his campaign to make your life miserable.  Let’s be honest.  Satan is already working overtime to ruin our lives.  Do we really want to give him a hand with his efforts?  Of course not!  Instead of pinch-hitting for “Team Satan”, why not become a full-fledged all-star on God’s Team and give Him the praise He deserves for looking beyond the foolishness of our sin and blessing each of us with the divine spiritual gifts we need to accomplish His will!

Let’s consider Rahab again…the woman herself, her family, her environment, and the situation in which she was placed.  As you saw in the previous verses, Rahab was first introduced as a prostitute.  If having dealings with a king is any evidence, she was quite a well-known one at that.  But something in her heart persuaded her to help the Israelite spies.  She had an innate conviction which superseded any fear of the consequences she would face by defying the king of Jericho.  She assisted the Israelite spies, hid them from those who intended to kill them, and risked her life for her convictions.

It is clearly documented she was not an upstanding sort of citizen.  She was from the wrong side of the tracks...from the “Red Light District”.  In the eyes of the morality crowd, she was the basest sort of character; however, regardless of her occupation or origin, it is undeniable God saw in Rahab many redeemable qualities.  Think back to some of the attributes which became so evident following her encounter with the men...and ultimately, in her involvement in the divine plan of God:

•She had a purity of heart.

•She heeded the cry of her heart.

•She recognized the awesome power of God.

•She was true to her word.

•She was faithful and committed to her calling.

•She stood on her own amidst a land of unbelievers.

•She was fearless.

•She risked her life to carry out the work of God.

•She had a love for family.

•She was repentant.

Rahab, in her own words, tells us the reason for her actions more assuredly than anything we could imagine.  She says when she and her family heard of the works of the Lord, their “hearts did melt”.  You see, God had already planted a seed in Rahab’s heart.  He saw past her sin and recognized the woman she could be in Him.

As we examine the qualities of Rahab, God’s reasons for using this woman become clearer.  God is the irrefutable master of the universe.  He created Rahab in His image just as He crafted each of us.  While it seems strange He would use a sinful woman to accomplish His goals, it is obvious He recognized her potential.  How amazing that she turned from her wickedness, and in doing so, she was the recipient of salvation...both physical and spiritual.  Isn’t it astounding how God can use someone who is living a life so contrary to His will...then turn their life around to accomplish His plan?

We only have to remember this fact, though, to understand.  God is the only true and holy God.  We can never begin to fathom His greatness or the intricacies of His plan for this world.  The great part, however, is this: We can be part of the plan, too!  God recognizes the potential in each of us.  The key to becoming an active member of God’s kingdom is responding to His call!  Sitting on the security of your spiritual situation will not get His job done!  How we react to His commands for our lives will be the determining factor!  Will we have a purity of heart?  Will we be true to our word and faithful to God’s calling?  Will we be loving, and fearless, and repentant?

Consider the future Rahab might have endured had she not recognized the power of the Almighty God.  She would have faced the unfortunate progression of a sinful lifestyle:  Disease.  Abuse.  Unhappiness.  Disillusionment.  Death.

Ladies, the reality of the situation is this:  Without the intervening power of God, the fate Rahab escaped lies ahead of each one us.  But there is hope!  There is life…and it is an eternal life through the saving grace of God!

The Bible records that not only were Rahab’s efforts rewarded but that she was saved from her wickedness and accepted into the family of God.  Paul remarks on Rahab’s faith in his letter to the Hebrew people (11:31.)  In addition, the Book of Matthew tells us Rahab eventually held an esteemed position in the lineage of Jesus!  Praise God for His matchless grace!

Let’s Wrap Things Up:

Are there situations in your life which mirror Rahab’s?  Let’s elaborate...

1. Think of one or more ways sin is holding you in bondage.  How does this sin hinder your relationship with God?

2. Do you feel God is trying to convince you to step out in faith in some area of your life?  If so, put your thoughts into words...and take a good look at them:

3. Just as God used Rahab in His Kingdom work, He has plans to use you and your gifts to further His divine plan.  What gifts do you possess which can be utilized to glorify God?

4. Each of us has enough worldly baggage to pack an entire airplane and enough regret over things left undone to fill a book...or series of books!  What Christian doesn’t have feelings of guilt and shame where sin is concerned?  But we can learn from our mistakes.  What obstacles are preventing you from developing this closer walk with God?

5. How can you overcome these obstacles?

6. Most importantly, are you willing to make the sacrifice to become more fruitful in the Kingdom?  Take a moment to answer this question in your journal and to write any further thoughts you have about taking an active approach to seeking God’s will for your life.

WEEK TWO

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When We Take the Wrong Road Home...

Orpah

Many of us have an uncanny ability to know what is best for others...at least, we think we do.  Our minds are full of the “ifs” in life:  “If she would only...” or, “He would be better off if...”

Sound familiar?  Of course it does!  From early on in our lives, we have been entrenched in the drama of our environments and the people around us.  Over time, we become excellent observers of the dynamics of family and friends...of the good times, the squabbles, and unfortunately, even the abuse, both mental and physical, so prevalent in our society today.

It is not surprising then for us to seek some sort of shelter in that storm of emotions...in essence...a friend.  From childhood, we develop relationships which, many times, go beyond our casual school acquaintances.  We latch onto someone, the relationship “clicks”, and we find ourselves BFF...Best Friends Forever.

As we grow older, maturity sets in and the issues we encounter become more diverse.  With this diversity comes an even greater difficulty for friendships as each of us is forced to deal with issues arising in our relationships.

Think back to elementary school when the girl in the desk next to yours scribbled you a note on her favorite pink stationary:

Will you be my friend?

◊YES

◊NO

◊MAYBE

Weren’t the decisions you had to make in those days simple?  Just make a check in a box...and your friendship was launched!  As we get older, however, the questions get harder...and the answers our friends expect (and we expect from our friends) are never as easy to give.

Shift your thoughts forward to the present day when that same friend calls you in tears and says something like: “I just found out my fiancé has been unfaithful.  Should I go ahead with the wedding?”

As you can see, the question has become quite a bit more involved and the repercussions of the advice we give as a friend becomes even more impacting.  There is no way this friend expects...or deserves...a simple, one-word answer to her question.  She wants something resembling a three-hour dissertation on the ins and outs of marriage, fidelity, and the “happily-ever-after” she has been planning on since childhood!

It is through this land mine of advice-giving and receiving, shoulder-crying and tear-wiping, and putting-your-foot-down insistence that we travel the road of friendship.  It also makes no difference if we have one friend or a hundred friends...we have to approach each dilemma with the same honesty and forthrightness we would expect.

Proverbs tells us, “A friend loveth at all times” (17:17).  Now, if someone asked you if you loved your friends, I think the answer would always be the affirmative.  But how do you show that love to them?  Is your friendship a one-sided support system where either you or she gives your time providing for the other’s needs, or is the friendship you claim to have a reciprocal relationship where both of you plays an active part?  Have you allowed yourself to be simply a garbage can where your friend has free reign to dump all of her problems, or do you and your friend have a relationship of mutual prayer and effort as you seek what’s best for each other?

In today’s world, we try to put a value on everything: friendship, love, faith, service; however, in making our emotional ties and spirituality value-based commodities, we lose their intrinsic value.  In dealing with relationships, we have to get past the worldly worth and get down to the basics of a true and meaningful tie with another individual.  In other words, we have to shed our views of the worldly value or social benefit of having friends and get down to the most basic reason for building relationships: serving God through serving others.

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Think for a moment on what you are to your friend:

•Listener?

•Travel Companion?

•Financial support/bail-out?

•Source of faith-filled wisdom/moral compass?

•Prayer partner?

•••

We can be one or all of the above for our friends.  The key is relying on our relationship with God to lead our way.  Most of the problems we face with the ties of friendship are not necessary outcomes of our relationships.  These problems arise when we allow our old, worldly way of life to creep back into the new life we have found in Christ.  When we attempt to pacify our friends with the “feel-good” answer...an answer which may or may not follow the direction of the Holy Spirit...we lose the essence of true friendship.

Instead, we must approach friendship with a commitment to maintaining our position as a Christian role model and confidante.  We must put the will of God first...then our thoughts, words, and actions with our friends will become a representation of the greater relationship we are striving to have with our heavenly Father.

It is no secret each of has to resist the urge to fall back into a lifestyle which might be dishonorable to both God and ourselves.  In this part of our study, we will take a look at a woman named Orpah.  We will look at her circumstances, her actions, and ultimately, the consequences of those decisions which resulted in a break of friendship and companionship with those who would later contribute to the history of the world...and the lineage of our Savior.

Now, while many of you have never heard of Orpah, most of you are familiar with the other people in her story: Naomi and Ruth.  Sound familiar now?  Let’s take a moment to get to know these interesting women as we read the story from the book of Ruth.

(Ruth 1:1-16)

“Now it came to pass in the days when the judges ruled, that there was a famine in the land.  And a certain man of Bethlehemjudah went to sojourn in the country of Moab, he, and his wife, and his two sons.

And the name of the man was Elimelech, and the name of his wife, Naomi, and the name of his two sons, Mahlon and Chilion, Ephrathites of Bethlehemjudah.  And they came into the country of Moab, and continued there.

And Elimelech Naomi’s husband died; and she was left, and her two sons.

And they took them wives of the women of Moab; the name of the one was Orpah, and the name of the other Ruth: and they dwelled there about ten years.

And Mahlon and Chilion died also both of them; and the woman was left of her two sons and her husband.

Then she arose with her daughters in law, that she might return from the country of Moab: for she had heard in the country of Moab how that the Lord had visited his people in giving them bread.

Wherefore she went forth out of the place where she was, and her two daughters in law with her; and they went on the way to return unto the land of Judah.

And Naomi said unto her two daughters in law, Go, return each to her mother’s house: the Lord deal kindly with you, as ye have dealt with the dead, and with me.

The Lord grant you that ye may find rest, each of you in the house of her husband.  Then she kissed them; and they lifted up their voice, and wept.

And they said unto her, Surely we will return with thee unto thy people.

And Naomi said, Turn again, my daughters: why will ye go with me?  Are there yet any more sons in my womb, that they may be your husbands?

Turn again, my daughters, go your way; for I am too old to have an husband.  If I should say, I have hope, if I should have an husband also to night, and should also bear sons;

Would ye tarry for them till they were grown?  Would ye stay for them from having husbands?  Nay, my daughters; for it grieveth me much for your sakes that the hand of the Lord is gone out against me.

And they lifted up their voice, and wept again: and Orpah kissed her mother in law; but Ruth clave unto her.

And she said, Behold, thy sister in law is gone back unto her people, and unto her gods: return thou after thy sister in law.

And Ruth said, Entreat me not to leave thee, or to return from following after thee: for whither thou goest, I will go; and where thou lodgest, I will lodge: thy people shall be my people, and thy God my God...” (Ruth 1:1-16.)

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It is obvious from the story that the lives of Naomi and her family members were fraught with hardship and despair.  Let’s take a moment to summarize:

Data:

1. Name the three women in the story.

2. List two of the trials they faced in the story.

3. What do you know of Orpah’s life?

4. How would you define the following terms:

•Loyalty

•Family

•Friendship

Assessment:

1. What was Naomi’s advice to Ruth and Orpah?

2. How did each woman react to Naomi’s request?

Response:

1. What did the women decide to do?

2. What risks did Ruth take by following Naomi and leaving her homeland?

3. What were Orpah’s reasons for staying in Moab?

Evaluation:

1. What was the result of Ruth’s commitment to her mother-in-law?

2. Do you think it was difficult for Ruth to trust that God would provide?  Why or why not?

3. Although the Bible does not describe Orpah’s life following her parting with Naomi and Ruth, write down your thoughts on how her decision may have played out.

4. Place yourself in Orpah’s position and describe what you would have done in a similar situation.

Life Application:  Are You On the Right Path?

To summarize the story, Naomi and her family were forced to move to Moab due to famine.  While there, her sons married two local girls.  Naomi’s husband died, and ten years later, both her sons died, as well, leaving Naomi in a foreign, pagan land with her two daughters- in-law...and none of them able to support themselves!

Here is where the story makes its transition, though.  As each of us reaches point in our lives where we have to make a decision, Naomi was forced by the death of the family’s breadwinners and the resulting financial hardship to make a choice: Will I stay or will I go?

As we read deeper into the story, we are shown that Naomi didn’t take her decision lightly.  We see Naomi made a personal sacrifice and put the needs of others first.  The custom of the day was for an unmarried brother or other relative to marry his brother’s widow.  Knowing she had no more sons to take on the burden of a wife, she encouraged her daughters-in-law to return to their own families in order to find husbands.  For Naomi, this was akin to financial suicide...she would be left a pauper with no one to turn to in her own need.

Most importantly, though, the story shows us Naomi’s decisions were based on relying on God to meet her needs.

The story explains that Ruth refused to part with her mother-in-law.  She exhibited both love and loyalty when she could have taken the easy way out.  She left her homeland, her pagan society and its gods, to travel to an unknown land where the prospects of a future were bleak.  As most of us know, though, her story did have a happy ending.  She later married Boaz and was blessed by God as the great-grandmother of King David, and ultimately was part of the lineage of Jesus!

But what happened to Orpah?  Her part in the story is very small, but greatly telling.  While she was pulled in both directions by her love and emotional ties to Naomi and Ruth, she ultimately chose to return to her own people...and her own gods...and forsake the blessings of a life lived in service to the one true God.   In other words, she returned to her roots...but in her case, her old life was a life displeasing to God.  She made a bad choice, and that choice, according to scholars, was filled with pain and heartache.  Many historians and religious scholars even attest that after Orpah departed company with Naomi and Ruth, she lived a sexually immoral life and was even believed to be the mother of the giant, Goliath, who was killed by David (ironically, or maybe divinely, the great-grandson of Ruth).

So, what can we learn from the story of Orpah and how can we put that knowledge to use in our friendships?

One of the issues we see in the story was that Naomi’s sons married women who were not of the same faith.  We call this being “unequally yoked”.  The Bible tells us in 2 Corinthians 6:14: “Be not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness?  And what communion hath light with darkness?”

The term “unequally yoked” is a common one when describing dating and marital relationships; however, it is, at times, overlooked in relationships between friends.  Please do not misunderstand!  It is the author’s opinion that we are all called to bring the truth of salvation to all people, regardless of sex, color, nationality, etc.  It is the Great Commission, after all!  We are called to bring the Word of God to everyone!

The focus of this lesson, however, is the choice we make regarding who we spend our time and energy on in close, personal relationships.  We have to understand the key to choosing and cultivating friendships is prioritizing our relationship with God...and expecting our friends to do the same!  Friendships cross all sorts of cultural boundaries...but the strength and the source of the bond of that friendship has to be based on a mutual relationship with God!

So, what happens when we are faced with problems and have important decisions to make?  The answer should be clear!  We bring our burdens to God!  And how much easier is laying down the issues of life when you have a spiritually-minded friend to stand along with you as you face these crises?  It is infinitely better than returning to your roots...getting back into a lifestyle displeasing to God simply because it is the easier path to take when times are difficult.

As Christian friends, we must stay committed to putting the will of God first in our lives and in our interactions with those around us.  We have to stay focused on the path ahead of us...the path directed by an almighty God working in our lives.  We can choose His path, and bring our friends along for the blessings of a life in the service of God, or we can shirk our duties as a true friend and let them flounder in the mire of a life which is displeasing to the God who created us to do His purpose!

Take a moment to consider two of your closest friends.  In your journal, list five of the qualities which draw you to them (or which you feel are important in friendship.)

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1. Do you (or do you not) contribute those same qualities to your friends?  Why or why not?

2. What qualities do you feel you contribute in your friendships?

3. List five ways you have failed to be a Christian example to your friends.

4. Name five people you see are in need of a Christian witness and friend.

5. How could you share your testimony and faith in Christ with them?

Let’s Wrap Things Up:

In the story of Orpah, we find a young woman who has faced numerous trials.  Unfortunately, while she felt a sincere love for Naomi and Ruth, she was unable to step out on faith and follow them down an uncertain path.  Emotionally distraught, she chose, instead, to return to her roots and rely upon the security of past relationships instead of trusting in the plans of God.

The Bible tells us: “But the ship was now in the midst of the sea, tossed with waves: for the wind was contrary.  And in the fourth watch of the night Jesus went unto them, walking on the sea.  And when the disciples saw him walking on the sea, they were troubled, saying, ‘It is a spirit’;  and they cried out for fear.  But straightway Jesus spake unto them, saying, ‘Be of good cheer; it is I; be not afraid.  And Peter answered him and said, ‘Lord, if it be thou, bid me come unto thee on the water.’  And He said, ‘Come.’  And when Peter was come down out of the ship, he walked on the water, to go to Jesus.  But when he saw the wind boisterous, he was afraid; and beginning to sink, he cried, saying, ‘Lord, save me.’  And immediately Jesus stretched forth is hand, and caught him, and said unto him, ‘O thou of little faith, wherefore didst thou doubt?’  And when they were come into the ship, the wind ceased.”  (Matthew 14:24-32.)

In times of trial, many of us completely turn our backs on those who desire to help us...those who are true friends.  How many times have you received a word of scripturally-based advice or entreaty from a family member or friend...then let that same word pass you by like a vapor?

I am convinced the goal of some individuals is to make the lives of others completely miserable.  We all know Satan has a very sturdy grip on many lives...and he is fighting tooth and nail to keep that stronghold.

With that in mind, I ask you: Why would you entrust the vessel of your life into the hands of an ungodly world?  Why would you rely on the corruption and misguided thinking of non-Christians to navigate your life when what you really need is to look to the one on the shore...the one offering you safety and eternal life?

Let Jesus rule your lives, ladies...and bring His truth, His assurance, and His blessings to the lives of your friends, as well!

Write down your thoughts or prayers for your friends in your journal and commit to living a life worthy of the blessing of salvation as you share the joys and heartaches of friendship with those God has placed in your life.

WEEK THREE

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Guilty As Charged: FaithFashionistas on Trial

Deborah

Do you ever wonder about God’s plan for your life?  Many people spend years searing for an ever-elusive Shangri-La, that “if I could only” which would be the icing on the cake of one’s life story.

I’ll be honest with you: This lesson is not what you should be reading if your only goal in life is a trip down “Easy Street”.  On the other hand, if you are committed heart and soul to take a serious look at your life, shortcomings and all, this is exactly the message you need to hear.  Not only will this lesson help you perform an honest assessment of your life, but it will also kick-start you I a direction to reap the rewards of spiritual service.  You will begin to understand the true gift of God-given empowerment...a blessed gift of spiritual discernment which will allow you to become the servant God desires.  Then once you are standing in His firm will, you will begin to reap His divine rewards in other areas of your life, as well.

In this section of the study, we will take a look at a woman named Deborah.  While maybe not as well-known, in a worldly point of view as someone like Esther, Deborah was just as powerful and as much an intrinsic part of the history of Israel as her Biblical counterpart.  Take a moment to read the verses from the book of Judges about this fascinating and powerful woman:

(Judges, Chapters 4 & 5)

“And the children of Israel again did evil in the sight of the Lord, when Ehud was dead.

And the Lord sold them into the hand of Jabin king of Canaan, that reigned in Hazor; the captain of whose host was Sisera, which swelt in Harosheth of the Gentiles.

And the children of Israel cried unto the Lord: for he had nine hundred chariots of iron; and twenty years he mightily oppressed the children of Israel.

And Deborah, a prophetess, the wife of Lapidoth, she judged Israel at that time.

And she swelt under the palm tree of Deborah between Ramah and Bethel in mount Ephraim: and the children of Israel came up to her for judgment.

And she sent and called Barak the son of Abinoam out of Kedeshnaphtali and said unto him, Hath not the Lord God of Israel commanded, saying, Go and draw toward mount Tabor, and take with thee ten thousand men of the children of Naphtali and of the children of Zebulun?

And I will draw unto thee to the river Kishon Sisera, the captain of Jabin’s army, with his chariots and his multitude; and I will deliver him into thine hand.

And Barak said unto her, If thou wilt go with me, then I will go: but if thou wilt not go with me, then I will not go.

And she said, I will surely go with thee: notwithstanding the journey that thou takest shall not be for thine honour; for the Lord shall sell Sisera into the hand of a woman.  And Deborah arose, and went with Barak to Kedesh.

And Barak called Zebulun and Naphtali to Kedesh; and he went up with ten thousand men at his feet and Deborah went up with him.

Now Heber the Kenite which was of the children of Hobab the father in law of Moses, had severed himself from the Kenites, and pitched his tent unto the plain of Zaanaim, which is by Kedesh.

And they shewed Sisera that Barak the son of Abinoam was gone up to mount Tabor.

And Sisera gathered totether all his chariots, even nine hundred chariots of iron, and all the people that were with him, from Harosheth of the Gentiles unto the river of Kishon.

And Deborah said unto Barak, Up; for this is the day in which the Lord hath delivered Sisera into thine hand: is not the Lord gone out before thee?  So Barak went down from mount Tabor, and ten thousand men after him.

And the Lord discomfited Sisera, and all his chariots, and all his host, with the edge of the sword before Barak; so that Sisera lighted down off his chariot, and fled away on his feet.

But Barak pursued after the chariots, and after the host, unto Harosheth of the Gentiles: and all the host of Sisera fell upon the edge of the sword; and there was not a man left.

Howbeit Sisera fled away on his feet to the tent of Jael the wife of Heber the Kenite: for there was peace between Jabin the king of Hazor and the house of Heber the Kenite.

And Jael went out to meet Sisera and said unto him, Turn in, my lord, turn in to me; fear not.  And when he had turned in unto her into the tent, she covered him with a mantle.

And he said unto her, Give me, I ray thee, a little water to drink; for I am thirsty.  And she opened a bottle of milk, and gave him drink, and covered him.

And again he said unto her, Stand in the door of the tent, and it shall be, when any man doth come and inquire of thee, and say, Is there any man here?  That thou shalt say, No.

Then Jael Heber’s wife took a nail of the tent, and took an hammer in her hand, and went softly unto him, and smote the nail into his temples, and fastened it into the ground: for he was fast asleep and weary.  So, he died.

And behold, as Barak pursued Sisera, Jael came out to meet him, and said unto him, Come, and I will shew thee the man whom thou seekest.  And when he came into her tent, behold, Sisera lay dead, and the nail was in his temples.

So God subdued on that day Jabin the king of Canaan before the children of Israel.

And the hand of the children of Israel prospered, and prevailed against Jabin the king of Canaan, until they had destroyed Jabin king of Canaan.

Then sang Deborah and Barak the son of Abinoam on that day, saying,

Praise ye the Lord for the avenging of Israel, when the people willingly offered themselves.

Hear, O ye kings; give ear, O ye princes; I, even I, will sing unto the Lord; I will sing praise to the Lord God of Israel.

Lord, when thou wentest out of Seir, when thou marchedst out of the field of Edom, the earth trembled, and the heavens dropped, the clouds also dropped water.

The mountains melted from before the Lord, even that Sinai from before the Lord God of Israel.

In the days of Shamgar the son of Anath, in the days of Jael, the highways were unoccupied, and the travellers walked through byways.

The inhabitants of the villages ceased, they ceased in Israel, until that I Deborah arose, that I arose a mother in Israel.

They chose new gods; then was war in the gates: was there a shield or spear seen among forty thousand in Israel?

My heart is toward the governors of Israel, that offered themselves willingly among the people.  Bless ye the Lord.

Speak, ye that ride on white asses, ye that sit in judgement, and walk by the way.

They that are delivered from the noise of archers in the places of drawing water, there shall they rehearse the righteous acts of the Lord, even the righteous acts toward the inhabitants of his villages in Israel: then shall the people of the Lord go down to the gates.

Awake, awake, Deborah: awake, awake, utter a song: arise, Barak, and lead thy captivity captive, thou son of Abinoam.

Then he made him that remaineth have dominion over the nobles among the people: the Lord made me have dominion over the mighty.

Out of Ephraim was there a root of them against Amalek; after thee, Benjamin, among thy people; out of Machir came down governors, and out of Zebulun they that handle the pen of the writer.

And the princes of Issachar were with Deborah; even Issachar, and also Barak: he was sent on foot into the valley.  For the divisions of Reuben there were great thoughts of heart.

Why abodest thou among the sheepfolds, to hear the bleatings of the flocks?  For the divisions of Reuben there were great searching of heart.

Gilead abode beyond Jordan: and shy did Dan remain in ships?  Asher continued on the sea shore, and abode in his breaches.

Zebulun and Naphtali were a people that jeoparded their lives unto the death in the high places of the field.

The kings came and fought, then fought the kings of Canaan in Taanach by the waters of Megiddo; they took no gain of money.

They fought from heaven; the stars in their courses fought against Sisera.

The river of Kishon swept them away, that ancient river, the river Kishon.  O my soul, thou hast trodden down strength.

Then were the horsehoofs broken by the means of the pransings, the pransings of their mighty ones.

Curse ye Meroz, said the angel of the Lord, curse ye bitterly the ingabitants thereof; because they came not to the help of the Lord, to the help of the Lord against the mighty.

Blessed above women shall be Jael the wife of Heber the Kenite be, blessed shall she be above women in the tent.

He asked water, and she have him milk; she brought forth butter in a lordly dish.

She put her hand to the nail, and her right hand to the workmen’s hammer; and with the hammer she smote Sisera, she smote off his head, when she had pierced and stricken through his temples.

At her feet he bowed, he fell, he lay down: at her feet he bowed, he fell: where he bowed, there he fell down dead.

The mother of Sisera looked out at a window, and cried through the lattice, Why is his chariot so long in coming?  Why tarry the wheels of his chariots?

Her wise ladies answered her, yea, she returned answer to herself,

Have they not sped?  Have they not divided the prey;  to every man a damsel or two; to Sisera a prey of divers colours, a prey of divers colours of needlework, of divers colours of needlework on both sides, meet for the necks of them that take the spoil?

So let all thine enemies perish, O lord: but let them that love him be as the sun when he goeth forth in his might.  And the land had rest forty years.”  (Judges, Chapters 4-5)

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In the time of Deborah, the land of Israel was ruled by a series of judges.  These individuals were thought to be chosen by God and gave guidance to the people of Israel.  Deborah is the only known female to sit as a judge for the Hebrew people.  What an amazing honor!  Her story is a difficult one to read, though.  Generations of disobedience had led the people of Israel into another sort of captivity, and the brutality of war and oppression is clearly evident as the writer depicts the events of the time.  But while the song of Deborah speaks to the death and carnage of a harsh existence, it is also a reminder of the outcome of following the will of God.  Let’s take a closer look.

Data:

1. What do you know of Deborah’s life?  Who was this woman who was divinely chosen to rule nation and provide insight to the problems of her people?

2. How would you define the following terms:

•Judge

•Prophetess

•Obedience

Assessment:

1. What was Deborah’s request of Barak, and how was that request supposed to benefit her people?

2. Describe your thoughts about Deborah agreeing to follow Barak into battle.

Response:

1. How was the battle ultimately won?

2. What risks did Deborah take when she called her people into battle?

Evaluation:

1. What was the result of Deborah’s commitment to carrying out the plan God had for His people?

2. Do you think it was difficult for Deborah to trust God to lead the people of Israel to victory even when the odds were against them?  Why or why not?

3. In some translations, the name Deborah means “Woman of Fire”.  In your opinion, how did Deborah live up to this name?

4. Could you apply that term to yourself with regards to your spiritual walk?  Why or why not?

Life Application:  Playing Judge and Jury

First, I would like for us to take a moment to define the principles of Godly living we saw in the example of Deborah:

•Discernment:  the ability to judge correctly

•Decisiveness:  that which brings about a result

•Devotion:  attached to a cause

The principles listed above should be applicable to every facet of our lives.  Now, we will apply these principles to our Faith Walk.  We will also see how we can put these God-honoring principles to work.

In order to do this, we must appoint ourselves to the role of judge.  We will become our own personal judges...and place our Faith on trial.  As a guide, we will use aspects of a trial:  we will have an Opening Statement, a Prosecution’s Case, our Defense, Closing Arguments, a Deliberation, and finally, our faith Verdict.  With that in mind, let’s “Rise” to the challenge as we put our faith on trial!  Court is in session!

Opening Statement:

Each of us has our own view of our walk of faith.  Some may feel their faith is strong...immovable, even.  Others may find they struggle with faith issues.  Take a moment to write a description of the role of faith in your life.

Prosecution’s Case:

In the writings of Paul to the Colossians, he praised their faith: “For though I be absent in the flesh, yet am I with you in the spirit, joying and beholding your order, and the steadfastness of your faith in Christ.” (Col 2:5)

Paul was not even present to see with his own eyes the works and faithfulness of the Colossians; however, because their actions were true, timely, and most importantly, “steadfast”, the fruits of their faithfulness were well-known to him.  What does it mean to be True?  Timely?  Steadfast?  Can these terms be applied to your faith walk?

Defense:

In coming to one’s defense, many of us respond in a similar way: “She is innocent because...”  We qualify our responses by forcing ourselves to answer the most basic questions: Who, What, Where, When, Why, and How.  When we apply that same formula to our faith walk, it becomes: “I can be found faithful because...”  Elementary, isn’t it?  Maybe...or maybe not.

Let’s take our faith defense to the next level and answer the following questions...kind of like a cross-examination.  Answer honestly because our responses will be the key in understanding both the strengths and weaknesses in our faith walk.

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1. Who has been the greatest influence on your personal faith in Jesus Christ?

2. What is your biggest obstacle to living a faith-based life?

3. Why is your faith important?

4. When was the last time you found yourself putting your faith into action?

5. Where do you see God calling you to exercise more faith?

6. How do you gauge whether or not your faith is increasing?

Closing Arguments/Deliberation:

The term deliberate means “to take a long and careful observation.”  Now is the time to begin our closing arguments.  This is also the time where the principles of Godly living really start to play out.  We must take a long and careful observation of our responses to the questions above and work out the basics of our faith walk.  Ultimately, we must ask ourselves: Have I honored God with my faith walk?

The Verdict:

As a judge, Deborah made rulings.  She used her discernment to look at every aspect of a situation.  She followed her decision with a level of decisiveness which is truly remarkable.  Not only did she rely on God’s gifts when making decisions, but she also trusted Him to help her carry out her rulings.  She was devoted to His will for her life and the lives of her people.  So, how did you do in your role as Judge?

Let’s go back to our original statement of faith:  “I can be found faithful because...”

Now let’s look at our answers.  Do they offer proof of a faith-based life?  Or did we expose areas in our lives where our faith is weak?  Ask yourself:  What areas of my faith walk are strong?  In what ways can I work on those areas in need of help?  Write your thoughts about your “verdict” in your journal.

Let’s Wrap Things Up:

For many of us, the legal system is a maze of twists and turns and loads of legal jargon.  Consider the level of stress Deborah must have felt as she not only made rulings on day to day disagreements between individuals, but was also seen as the ultimate voice in directing her nation’s political and military process.  In these life or death circumstances, the weight of her God-given role must have been almost unbearable.  Fortunately, Deborah had a spiritual discernment gifted to her by an almighty God.  Wouldn’t it be such a great comfort for us to have that same decision-making ability?  Imagine how much lighter our daily burdens would become with the hand of God working in our lives!  Imagine what discerning friends we could become if our own lives were a reflection of faithful dedication!

WEEK FOUR

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How God Can Use a Flawed Person to Accomplish His Will:

Esther

The Old Testament book of Esther is a puzzle of sorts for many Christians.  Some even ask why the book was included in the Bible.  God, they say, is not even mentioned by name in the book.  Let’s have another look, though.  Dig a little deeper.  As my parents, like many of yours, have always reminded me: “Things are not always as they seem.”

Throughout history, Esther has been portrayed as an incomparable beauty.  An example of grace and power.  The perfect image of a queen, right?  Maybe...or maybe not.

Like each of us, Queen Esther was far from perfect.  She was flawed, sinful in nature, and, at times, deceitful; however, with His typical might and grace, God used this orphaned teenager to change the course of an entire nation and deliver His people from oppression and death.

Now, most of us don’t have the task of delivering an entire nation of people from oppression and death on our shoulders, but if we really think about it, I am sure we can come up with a handful or more of names of people whose salvation could be directly impacted by our personal influences.  After all, isn’t it God’s direct instruction to all Christians?  Turn in your Bible to the words of Jesus as He exhorts His disciples to do His will and His work.  Many of you will recognize these words as the “Great Commission”:

“Go ye therefore, and teach all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost: Teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you: and, lo, I am with you always, even unto the end of the world.  Amen.”

(Matthew 28:19-20)

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Throughout the next part of our study, we will examine what the Great Commission means for Christians both on a large scale, and more personally, how those words of Jesus apply to our daily lives...and what part Esther plays as our role model.  As we look at the life of this esteemed and cherished queen, we will examine her life...rake her over the coals, even.  Most importantly, though, we will begin to understand how God used this woman for His divine purpose...and how He wants to use us, as well.

Reading the Book of Esther in its entirety is very important, so the first eight chapters are included in your text.  I recommend reading the story for your day’s “assignment”.  Ponder the story for a while, and then dig deeper into who Esther’s story may be applied to your own life.

As you read, the historical references, names, and places may seem intimidating.  Don’t be discouraged, though.  Keep reading.  Without the chapter and verse references, you may find Esther’s story resembles the latest scandal in the gossip sheets more than it does a typical Bible story; however, not only is the book shorter than the average magazine, but it is unquestionably of more value, both spiritually and intellectually, than the daily Hollywood news!  It will truly affect your lives, ladies!

So, if you’re ready to lay your hearts on the chopping block of spiritual discernment, let’s take a “new” look at an Old Testament queen.

(Esther, Chapters 1-8)

“Now it came to pass in the days of Ahasuerus, (this is Ahasuerus, which reigned, from India even unto Ethiopia, over an hundred and seven and twenty provinces:) That in those days, when the king Ahasuerus sat on the throne of his kingdom, which was in Shushan the palace.  In the third year of his reign, he made a feast unto all his princes and his servants; the power of Persia and Media, the nobles and princes of the provinces, being before him: When he shewed the riches of his glorious kingdom and the honour of his excellent majesty many days, even an hundred and fourscore days.

And when these days were expired, the king made a feast unto all the people that were present in Shushan the palace, both unto great and small, seven days, in the court of the garden of the king’s palace; Where were white, green, and blue, hangings, fastened with cords of fine linen and purple to silver rings and pillars of marble: the beds were of gold and silver, upon a pavement of red, and blue, and white, and black, marble.  And they gave them drink in vessels of gold, (the vessels being diverse one from another,) and royal wine in abundance, according to the state of the king.  And the drinking was according to the law; none did compel: for so the king had appointed to all the officers of his house, that they should do according to every man’s pleasure.

Also Vashti the queen made a feast for the women in the royal house which belonged to king Ahasuerus.  On the seventh day, when the heart of the king was merry with wine, he commanded Mehuman, Biztha, Harbona, Bigtha, and Abagtha, Zethar, and Carcas, the seven chamberlains that served in the presence of Ahasuerus the king, to bring Vashti the queen before the king with the crown royal, to shew the people and the princes her beauty: for she was fair to look on.  But the queen Vashti refused to come at the king’s commandment by His chamberlains: therefore was the king very wroth, and his anger burned in him.

The king said to the wise men, which knew the times, (for so was the king’s manner toward all that knew law and judgement: And the next unto him was Carshena, Shethar, Admatha, Tarshish, Meres, Marsena, and Memucan, the seven princes of Persia and Media, which saw the king’s face, and which sat the first in the kingdom;) What shall we do unto the queen Vashti according to law, because she hath not performed the commandment of the king Ahasuerus by the chamberlains?  And Memucan answered before the king and the princes, Vashti the queen hath not done wrong to the king only, but also to all the princes, and to all the people that are in all the provinces of the king Ahasuerus.  For this deed of the queen shall come abroad unto all women, so that they shall despise their husbands in their eyes, when it shall be reported, The king Ahasuerus commanded Vashti the queen to be brought in before him, but she came not.  Likewise shall the ladies of Persia and Media say this day unto all the king’s princes, which have heard of the deed of the queen.  Thus shall there arise too much contempt and wrath.

If it please the king, let there go a royal commandment from him, and let it be written among the laws of the Persians and the Medes, that it be not altered, that Vashti come no more before king Ahsuerus; and let the king give her royal estate unto another that is better than she.  And when the king’s decree which he shall make shall be published throughout all his empire, (for it is great,) all the wives shall give to their husbands honour, both to great and small.  And the saying pleased the king and the princes; and the king did according to the word of Memucan: For he sent letters into all the king’s provinces, into every province according to the writing thereof, and to every people after their language, that every man should bear rule in his own house, and that it should be published according to the language of every people.

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After these things, when the wrath of king Ahasuerus was appeased, he remembered Vashti, and what she had done, and what was decreed against her.  Then said the king’s servants that ministered unto him, Let there be fair young virgins sought for the king: And let the king appoint officers in all the provinces of his kingdom, that they may gather together all the fair young virgins unto Shushan the palace, to the house of the women, unto the custody of Hege the king’s chamberlain, keeper of the women; and let their things for purification be given them: And let the maiden which pleaseth the king be queen instead of Vashti.  And the thing pleased the king; and he did so.

Now in Shushan the palace there was a certain Jew, whose name was Mordecai, the son of Jair, the son of Shimel, the son of Kish, a Benjamite; who had been carried away from Jerusalem with the captivity which had been carried away with Jeconiah king of Judah, whom Mebuchadnezzar the king of Babylon had carried away.  And he brought up Hadassah, that is, Esther, his uncle’s daughter; For she had neither father nor mother, and the maid was fair and beautiful; whom Mordecai, when her father and mother were dead, took for his own daughter.

So it came to pass, when the king’s commandment and his decree was heard, and when many maidens were gathered together unto Shushan the palace, to the custody of Hegai, keeper of the woman.  And the maiden pleased him, and she obtained kindness of him; and he speedily gave her her things for purification, with such things as belonged to her, and seven maidens, which were meet to be given her, out of the king’s house: and he preferred her and her maids unto the best place of the house of the women.

Esther had not shewed her people nor her kindred: for Mordecai had charged her that she should not shew it.  And Mordecai walked every day before the court of the women’s house, to know how Esther did, and what should become of her.

Now when every maid’s turn was come to go in to king Ahasuerus, after that she had been twelve months, according to the manner of the women, (For so were the days of their purifications accomplished, to wit, six months with oil of myrrh, and six months with sweet odours, and with other things for the purifying of the women;) Then thus came every maiden unto the king; whatsoever she desired was given her to go with her out of the house of the women unto the king’s house.  In the evening she went, and on the morrow she returned into the second house of the women, to the custody of Shaashgaz, the king’s chamberlain, which kept the concubines: she came in unto the king no more, except the king delighted in her, and that she were called by name.

Now when the turn of Esther, the daughter of Abihail the uncle of Mordecai, who had taken her for his daughter, was come to go in unto the king, she required nothing but what Hegai the king’s chamberlain, the keeper of the women, appointed.  And Esther obtained favour in the sight of all them that looked upon her.  So Esther was taken unto king Ahasuerus into his house royal in the tenth month, which is the month Tebeth, in the seventy year of his reign.  And the king loved Esther above all women, and she obtained grace and favour in his sight more than all the virgins; so that he set the royal crown upon her head, and made her queen instead of Vashti.

Then the king made a great feast unto all his princes and his servants, even Esther’s feast;  and he made a release to the provinces, and gave gifts, according to the state of the king.  And when the virgins were gathered together the second time, then Mordecai sat in the king’s gate.

Esther had not get shewed her kindred nor her people;  as Mordecai had charged her:  for Esther did the commandment of Mordecai, like as when she was brought up with him.  In those days, while Mordecai sat in the king’s gate, two of the king’s chamberlains, Bigthan and Teresh, of those which kept the door, were wroth, and sought to lay hands on the king Ahasuerus.  And the thing was known to Mordecai, who told it unto Esther the queen, and Esther certified the king thereof in Mordecai’s name.  And when inquisition was made of the matter, it was found out; therefore they were both hanged on a tree:  and it was written in the book of the chronicles before the king.

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After these things did king Ahasuerus promote Haman the son of Hammedatha the Agagite, and advanced him, and set his seat above all the princes that were with him.  And all the king’s servants, that were in the king’s gate, bowed, and reverenced Haman:  for the king had so commanded concerning him.  But Mordecai bowed not, nor did him reverence.

Then the king’s servants, which were in the king’s gate, said unto Mordecai, Why transgresses thou the king’s commandment?  Now it came to pass, when they spake daily unto him, and he hearkened not unto them, that they told Haman, to see whether Mordecai’s matters would stand:  for he had told them that he was a Jew.

And when Haman saw that Mordecai bowed not, nor did him reverence, then was Haman full of wrath.  And he thought scorn to lay hands on Mordecai alone; for they had shewed him the people of Mordecai:  wherefore Haman sought to destroy all the Jews that were throughout the whole kingdom of Ahasuerus, even the people of Mordecai.

In the first month, that is, the month Nisan, in the twelfth year of king Ahasuerus, they cast Pur, that is, the lot, before Haman from day to day, and from month to month, to the twelfth month, that is, the month Adar.  And Haman said unto king Ahasuerus, There is a certain people scattered abroad and dispersed among the people in all provinces of thy kingdom; and their laws are diverse from all people; neither keep they the king’s laws:  therefore it is not for the king’s profit to suffer them.  If it pleases the king, let it be written that they may be destroyed:  and I will pay ten thousand talents of silver to the hands of those that have the charge of the business, to bring it unto the king’s treasures.  And the king took his ring from his hand, and gave it unto Haman the son of Hammedatha the Agagite, the Jews’ enemy.  And the king said unto Haman, The silver is given to thee, the people also, to do with them as it seemeth good to thee.

Then were the king’s scribes called on the thirteenth day of the first month, and there was written according to all that Haman had commanded unto the king’s lieutenants, and to the governors that were over every province, and to the rulers of every people of every province according to the writing thereof, and to every people after their language; in the name of king Ahasuerus was it written, and sealed with the king’s ring.  And letters were sent by posts into all the king’s provinces, to destroy, to kill, and to cause to perish, all Jews, both young and old, little children and women, in one day, even upon the thirteenth day of the twelfth month, which is the month Adar, and to take the spoil of them for a prey.

The copy of the writing for a commandment to be given in every province was published unto all people, that they should be ready against that day.  The posts went out, being hastened by the king’s commandment, and the decree was given in Shushan the palace.  And the king and Haman sat down to drink; but the city Shushan was perplexed.

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When Mordecai perceived all that was done, Mordecai rent his clothes, and put on sackcloth with ashes, and went out into the midst of the city, and cried with a loud and a bitter cry; and it came even before the king’s gate:  for none might enter into the king’s gate clothed with sackcloth.

And in every province, whithersoever the king’s commandment and his decree came, there was a great mourning among the Jews, and fasting, and weeping, and wailing; and many lay in sackcloth and ashes.

So Esther’s maids and her chamberlains came and told it her.  Then was the queen exceedingly grieved;  and she sent raiment to clothe Mordecai, and to take away his sackcloth from him:  but he received it not.

Then called Esther for Hatach, one of the king’s chamberlains, whom he had appointed to attend upon her, and gave him a commandment to Mordecai, to know what it was, and why it was.  So Hatach went forth to Mordecai unto the street of the city, which was before the king’s gate.  And Mordecai told him of all that had happened unto him, and of the sum of the money that Haman had promised to pay to the king’s treasuries for the Jews, to destroy them.  Also, he have him the copy of the writing of the decree that was given at Shushan to destroy them, to shew it unto Esther, and to declare it unto her, and to charge her that she should go in unto the king, to make supplication unto him, and to make request before him for her people.  And Hatach came and told Esther the words of Mordecai.

Again Esther spake unto Hatach, and gave him commandment unto Mordecai;  All the king’s servants, and the people of the king’s provinces, do know, that whosoever, whether man or women, shall come unto the king into the inner court, who is not called, there is one law of his to put him to death, except such to whom the king shall hold out the golden scepter, that he may live:  but I have not been called to come in unto the king these thirty days.  And they told to Mordecai Esther’s words.

The Mordecai commanded to answer Esther, Think not with thyself that thou shalt escape in the king’s house, more than all the Jews.  For if thou altogether holdest thy peace at this time, then shall there enlargement and deliverance arise to the Jews from another place; but thou and thy father’s house shall be destroyed:  and who knoweth whether thou art come to the kingdom for such a time as this?

Then Esther bade them return Mordecai this answer, Go, gather together all the Jews that are present in Shushan, and fast ye for me, and neither eat nor drink three days, night or day:  I also and my maidens will fast likewise; and so will I go in unto the king, which is not according to the law:  and if I perish, I perish.

So Mordecai went his way, and did according to all that Esther had commanded him.

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Now it came to pass on the third day, that Esther put on her royal apparel, and stood in the inner court of the king’s house, over against the king’s house:  and the king sat upon his royal throne in the royal house, over against the gate of the house.  And it was so, when the king saw Esther the queen standing in the court, that she obtained favour in his sight:  and the king held out to Esther the golden scepter that was in his hand.  So Esther drew near, and touched the top of the scepter.

Then said the king unto her, What wilt thou, queen Esther?  And what is thy request?  It shall be even given thee to the half of the kingdom.

And Esther answered, If it seem good unto the king, let the king and Haman come this day unto the banquet that I have prepared for him

Then the king said, Cause Haman to make haste, that he may do as Esther hath said.  So the king and Haman came to the banquet that Esther had prepared.  And the king said unto Esther at the banquet of wine, What is thy petition?  And it shall be granted thee:  and what is they request?  Even to the half of the kingdom it shall be performed.

Then answered Esther, and said, My petition and my request is; if I have found favour in the sight of the king, and if it please the king to grant my petition, and to perform my request, let the king and Haman come to the banquet that I shall prepare for them, and I will do to morrow as the king hath said.

Then went Haman forth that day joyful and with a glad heart:  but when Haman saw Mordecai in the king’s gate, that he stood not up, nor moved for him, he was full of indignation against Mordecai.  Nevertheless Haman refrained himself:  and when he came home, he sent and called for his friends, and Zeresh his wife.  And Haman told them of the glory of his riches, and the multitude of his children, and all the things wherein the king had promoted him, and how he had advanced him above the princes and servants of the king.  Haman said moreover, Yea, Esther the queen did let no man come in with the king unto the banquet that she had prepared but myself; and to morrow am I invited unto her also with the king.  Yet all this  availeth me nothing, so long as I see Mordecai the Jew sitting at the king’s gate.

Then said Zeresh his wife and all his friends unto him, Let a gallows be made of fifty cubits high, and to morrow speak thou unto the king that Mordecai may be hanged thereon:  then go thou in merrily with the king unto the banquet.  And the think pleased Haman; and he caused the gallows to be made.

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On that night, could not the king sleep, and he commanded to bring the book of records of the chronicles; and they were read before the king.  And it was found written, that Mordecai had told of Bigthana and Teresh, two of the king’s chamberlains, the keepers of the door, who sought to lay hand on the king Ahasuerus.

And the king said, What honour and dignity hath been done to Mordecai for this?  Then said the king’s servants that ministered unto, There is nothing done for him.  And the king said, Who is in the court?  Now Haman was come into the outward court of the king’s house, to speak unto the king to hang Mordecai on the gallows that he had prepared for him.  And the king’s servants said unto him, Behold, Haman standeth in the court.  And the king said, Let him come in.

So Haman came in.  And the king said unto him, What shall be done unto the man whom the king delighteth to honour?  Now Haman thought in his heart, To whom would the king delight to do honour more than to myself?  And Haman answered the king, for the man whom the king delighteth to honour, Let the royal apparel be brought which the king useth to wear, and the horse that the king rideth upon, and the crown royal which is set upon his head:  And let this apparel and horse be delivered to the hand of one of the king’s most noble princes, that they may arrow the man withal whom the king delighteth to honour, and bring him on horseback through the street of the city, and proclaim before him, Thus shall it be done to the man whom the king delighteth to honour.

Then the king said to Haman, Make haste, and take the apparel and the horse, as thou hast said and do even so to Mordecai the Jew, that sitteth at the king’s gate:  let nothing fail of all that thou hast spoken.

Then took Haman the apparel and the horse, and arrayed Mordecai, and brought him on horseback through the street of the city, and proclaimed before him, Thus shall it be done unto the man whom the king delighteth to honour.

And Mordecai came again to the king’s gate.  But Haman hasted to his house mourning, and having his head covered.  And Haman told Zeresh his wife and all his friends every thing that had befallen him.  Then said his wise men and Zeresh his wife unto him, If Mordecai be of the seed of the Jews, before whom thou hast begun to fall, thou shalt not prevail against him, but shalt surely fail before him.  And while they were yet talking with him, came the king’s chamberlains, and hasted to bring Haman unto the banquet that Esther had prepared.

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So the king and Haman came to banquet with Esther the queen.  And the king said again unto Esther on the second day at the banquet of wine, What is thy petition, queen Esther?  And it shall be granted thee:  and what is thy request?  And it shall be performed, even to the half of the kingdom.

Then Esther the queen answered and said, If I have found favour in thy sight, O king, and if it please the king, let my life be given me at my petition, and my people at my request.  For we are sold, I and my people, to be destroyed, to be slain, and to perish.  But if we had been sold for bondmen and bondwomen, I had held my tongue, although the enemy could not countervail the king’s damage.

Then the king Ahasuerus answered and said unto Esther the queen, Who is he, and where is he, that durst presume in his heart to do so?

And Esther said, The adversary and enemy is this wicked Haman.  Then Haman was afraid before the king and the queen.  And the king arising from the banquet of wine in his wrath went into the palace garden:  and Haman stood up to make request for his life to Esther the queen; for he saw that there was evil determined against him by the king.

Then the king returned out of the palace garden into the place of the banquet of wine; and Haman was fallen upon the bed whereon Esther was.  Then said the king, Will he force the queen also before me in the house?  As the word went out the king’s mouth, they covered Haman’s face.

And Harbonah, one of the chamberlains, said before the king, Behold also, the gallows fifty cubits high, which Haman had made for Mordecai, who spoken good for the king, standeth in the house of Haman.  Then the king said, Hang him thereon.  So they hanged Haman on the gallows that he had prepared for Mordecai.  Then was the king’s wrath pacified.

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On that day did the king Ahasuerus give the house of Haman the Jews’ enemy unto Esther the queen.  And Mordecai came before the king; for Esther had told what he was unto her.  And the king took off his ring, which he had taken from Haman, and gave it unto Mordecai.  And Esther set Mordecai over the house of Haman.

And Esther spake yet again before the king, and fell down at his feet, and besought him with tears to put away the mischief of Haman the Agagite, and his device that he had devised against the Jews.

Then the king held out the golden scepter toward Esther.  So Esther arose, and stood before the king, and said, If it please the king, and if I have favour in his sight, and the thing seem right before the king, and I be pleasing in his eyes, let it be written to reverse the letters devised by Haman the son of Hammedatha the Agagite, which he write to destroy the Jews which are in all the king’s provinces:  For how can I endure to see the evil that shall come unto my people?  Or how can I endure to see the destruction of my kindred?

Then the king Ahasuerus said unto Esther the queen and to Mordecai the Jew, Behold, I have given Esther the house of Haman, and him they have hanged upon the gallows, because he laid his hand upon the Jews.  Write ye also for the Jews, as it liketh you, in the king’s name, and seal it with the king’s ring:  for the writing which is written in the king’s name, and sealed with the king’s ring, may no man reverse.

Then were the king’s scribes called at that time in the third month, that is, the month of Sivan, on the three and twentieth day thereof; and it was written according to all that Mordecai commanded unto the Jews, and to the lieutenants, and the deputies and rulers of the provinces which are from India unto Ethiopia, an hundred twenty and seven provinces, unto every province according to the writing thereof, and unto every people after their language, and to the Jews according to their writing, and according to their language.  And he wrote in the king Ahasuerus’ name, and sealed it with the king’s ring, and sent letters by posts on horseback, and riders on mules, camels, and young dromedaries:

Wherein the king granted the Jews which were in every city to gather themselves together, and to stand for their life, to destroy, to slay and to cause to perish, all the power of the people and province that would assault them, both little ones and women, and to take the spoil of them for a prey, upon one day in all the provinces of king Ahasuerus, namely, upon the thirteenth day of the twelfth month, which is the month Adar.

The copy of the writing for a commandment to be given in every province was published unto all people, and that the Jews should be ready against that day to avenge themselves of their enemies.  So the posts that rode upon mules and camels went out, being hastened and pressed on by the king’s commandment.  And the decree was given at Shushan the palace.  And Mordecai went out from the presence of the king in royal apparel of blue and white, and with a great crown of gold, and with a garment of fine linen and purple:  and the city of Shushan rejoiced and was glad.  The Jews had light, and gladness, and joy, and honour.  And in every province, and in every city, whithersoever the king’s commandment and his decree came, the Jews had joy and gladness, a feast and a good day.  And many of the people of the land became Jews; for the fear of the Jews fell upon them.  (Esther, Chapters 1-8.)

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Data:

The following section will address the basic circumstances of the story:

1. How old was Esther at the beginning of the story?

2. Where were her parents?

3. What role did Mordecai play in her upbringing?

4. Who was Ahaseurus?

5. What events occurred at the royal palace put Esther in a place of esteem?

6. How would you describe Esther’s life in the palace?

Assessment:

In the following section, we will examine Esther’s situation on a more personal level.

1. What was Esther’s response to Mordecai’s request?

2. Put yourself in Esther’s place for a moment and describe the thoughts and fears you might have had about entering the court of Ahaseurus.

3. What were the benefits of a life in the royal palace?

4. What were the costs?

Response:

Let’s examine the course Esther took in her ultimate rise to esteem in the eyes of King Ahaseurus.

1. Name at least two individuals who came to Esther’s rescue after her arrival in the palace and describe their roles and how they helped the teenager cope with her new surroundings.

2. Describe Esther’s life after she was chosen by Ahaseurus to be his queen.

3. Do you think Mordecai gave Esther the option of refusing his plan to take her to the palace?

4. What dangers did Esther face when she decided to approach Ahaseurus with her request?

5. With her people facing the king’s decree, how do you think Esther found the courage to follow through with Mordecai’s plan?

6. What role did Mordecai and the Jewish people of Shushan play in Esther’s plan?

Evaluation:

Now it’s time to summarize the story...focus on the conclusion.

1. Describe Esther’s journey from a frightened and hopeless teenager to a life as the chosen and esteemed queen of Persia.

2. Do you think she was loved and respected by her husband, King Ahaseurus?  Why?

3. What kind of power did she yield in the kingdom?

4. What happened to the Jews in the provinces under the rule of King Ahaseurus?

Life Application: Are You Living Like a Queen

“Appearances are sometimes deceptive.”  How many times have you heard that from a friend?  How about: “Things are not always as they seem,”?  With every passing day, it seems the face-value of our culture diminishes.  Many of us have only a handful of family or friends who are truly trustworthy...if even that!

Let’s face the facts.  No matter how self-sufficient we might like to consider ourselves, a solitary existence is a hard one.  Standing along in the face of dire circumstances can undermine the resolve of the strongest, most confident women.  So what’s the answer? What are we to do, when we are face with the tenuous situations of life and need help?  Where are we to turn?

A stunning example of courage in the face of overwhelming fear and hopelessness can be found in the story of Esther.  Let’s take a moment and do a quick assessment of the positive physical and character traits we found Esther possessed:

•She was beautiful beyond measure.

•She had faith and courage.

•She was discerning.

•She questioned others’ motivations.

•She was diplomatic.

•She sought sound advice from those she trusted.

•She was respectful of her spouse and family.

•She coped well in diverse situations.

So you see, on the surface, Esther was beautiful beyond measure and a chosen wife of a great and powerful ruler.  Underneath the finery, however, was a young woman not unlike many of us...a composite of emotions and personality traits which carried her through a life wrought with tribulation.  Isn’t it amazing, then that God chose this adolescent and turned her into a woman capable of greatness?  A woman who ultimately played a divine role in the salvation of an entire nation!  As we face uncertain circumstances, we can be assured the same God who watched over a teenager and led her into the life of a queen is watching over us, as well.  Take notice of those qualities we found in her.  We each have similar traits God uses in our lives.  The only thing holding us back from receiving His blessing in our lives is fear!

The Bible speaks often of fear.  In Genesis, we are told of Isaac’s trials as he gave up a comfortable life and relocated his extended family.  Even as he faced quarrelsome neighbors and jealous leaders, God assured him: “I am the God of your father Abraham.  Do not be afraid, for I am with you” (Genesis 26:24.)  A well-known Psalm offers us a similar assurance of God’s security: “While I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; thy rod and thy staff, they comfort me,” (Psalm 23:4.)

Many of us are faced with troubling or dangerous situations where Satan is standing primed and ready to defeat us.  The key to defeating the enemy, though, is focusing on the saving grace of God!  He will never leave us or forsake us!

A major point which stood out in the story was Esther’s reliance on the prayer and fasting of Mordecai and the people of Shushan in preparation for her visit to the king.  Do you consider the prayers of your friends and family important?  Are you someone who can be approached when your friends and family need interventional prayer and supplication?  Why or why not?  Think for a moment on how you cope when faced with a dangerous or troubling situation?  Do you rely on God to hear your cry for help, or do you try to rely on yourself to find a way?

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1. Think of three instances when God rescued you from danger or sin.

2. After you came through the situation, did you take time to give God the thanks He so richly deserved?

3. What advice would you give someone who is faced with a fearful situation?

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Many of us face a great deal of apprehension when we are asked...or forced...to step out on a limb for God.  For some, it may just be the personal anxiety of sharing the gospel with a lost friend or family member.  For others, it may be a legitimate fear of losing your livelihood...or even your life.

Over the years, I have seen many examples of how we can overcome fear though the grace and guidance of the Holy Spirit.  From sharing my faith with a lost friend to hearing the firsthand trials and successes of a family of missionaries in China, God’s business has been revealed to me.

A shining example of “stepping out on a limb” lies in the testimony of a friend of my husband.  As an esteemed employee for a major company, this man was assigned the task of sharing a few “words of wisdom” to a group of new employees.  As he wracked his mind for the subject of his presentation, the Holy Spirit continually spoke to his heart reminding him of an earlier promise he’d made that he would never be ashamed of the gospel.  As the day of the presentation approached, he was still wavering with the topic.  Finally, the day arrived, and as the man stepped up to the podium as the last of the day’s speakers, I am happy to say his actions proved worthy of his call.  Knowing he was risking a well-paying, dependable job, he looked out at the group of employees and announced, “This afternoon, I am going to talk to you about a subject you have never heard about at this company.  I am going to tell you about a man named Jesus.”

Praise God for his testimony...and for the influence he had on that group of people…and on numerous others who have heard his testimony!  Just to let you know, this man continued to work for the company until his retirement and is now a missionary to Africa along with his family.

So, as you can see, getting your act together for God is sometimes a multi-faceted task.  There are always considerations, circumstances, and fears which have to be addressed or overcome as you become active in spreading the Word.  Losing a friend is sometimes a small repercussion of spreading the gospel compared to the Christians who lose their lives every day for their call.  But for those who are committed to seeking God’s will, there is little choice in the matter.  It is what we have been called to do!

I certainly do not want to scare you away from dealing in God’s business.  The reverse is true!  I have simply given you the evidence you need to prove to yourself that you can make a difference in the world, too!  We don’t have to be the Esthers, the Pauls, or the Peters of the world.  It’s not strictly about numbers (of course, the goal of any Christian should be to reach as many lost souls for the Lord as possible.)  Instead, we should strive to bend to the will of a most holy God.  It is about stepping out of our comfort zones!  You see, God doesn’t need our help.  His is almighty and could accomplish His divine will entirely free of our involvement.  But here’s the amazing thing about our Heavenly Father: He actually wants our help!  He desires a heart of service.  It’s all about giving of ourselves for His kingdom.  And as long as we are willing and serve with a pure heart, God will see to the dividends!

Has God placed you in a unique position to offer help to someone in need?  Of course He has!  Everyone has a job in “kingdom work”.  The key is finding your niche.  That special place where your skills meet the desires of your heart.  For some, it may not be the most comfortable of places, but you will be able to persevere because you will have the assurance you are in the right place.  You will have that blessed assurance found only in Christ!

Let’s take a final assessment.  What qualities or resources do you have which will make sharing the gospel easier?  For example, are you good the children, a good listener, a prolific speaker?  Do you have excess funds which would enable you to minister financially?

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1. Write down three ways God could use you for His kingdom’s work.

2. Now, list any hindrances or barriers which might prevent you from this work (for example, time constraints, money, lack of knowledge, etc.)

3. Finally, determine what will it take for you to overcome each of these obstacles (for example, better time utilization, budget modifications, going back to school to take a special course, etc.)

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The previous activities have just enabled you to complete a missions-minded spiritual analysis.  This is one of the hardest parts of determining a course of action in personal ministry!  Take a moment to review your work.  Are there any areas which jump off the page at you?  If so, then you have possibly found your “niche”!

Now the real work begins...placing your heart on the line with God.  Seeking His will and allowing Him to direct the course of your life.  In other words, you must begin to put your faith in action!  There will certainly be trials ahead.  Doing the work of God is difficult at times, but he rewards are so rich, the trials are worth it...both for you and for those who will receive the spiritual blessings resulting from your service.  Praise God for giving each of us the gifts and the means for living a life of service!  With that in mind, let’s get to work!

WEEK FIVE

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What is Your Greatest Gift?

Hannah

How many of us like to receive gifts?  Who doesn’t, right?  From the smallest token of friendship to the most substantial of prizes, each of us has an inherent desire to know someone has thought of us...and put that thought into action.  Gifts can provide encouragement and joy.  They can meet even meet physical needs in some cases.  But what about the gifts we have received from our heavenly Father?  Have you ever considered them?  If not, it’s about time you did!  Take a moment to read the following passage about a woman who received a divine gift from God:

(I Samuel 1:1-27, 2:1-11)

“Now there was a certain man of Ramathaimzophim, of mount Ephraim, and his name was Elkanah, the son of Jeroham, the son of Elihu, the son of Tohu, the son of Zuph, an Ephrathite: And he had two wives; the name of the one was Hannah, and the name of the other Peninnah: and Peninnah had children, but Hannah had no children.  And this man went up out of his city yearly to worship and to sacrifice unto the Lord of hosts in Shiloh.  And the two sons of Eli, Hophni and Phinehas, the priests of the Lord, were there.  And when the time was that Elkanah offered, he gave to Peninnah his wife, and to all her sons and her daughters, portions: But unto Hannah he gave a worthy portion; for he loved Hannah: but the Lord had shut up her womb.  And her adversary also provoked her sore, for to make her fret, because the Lord had shut up her womb.  And as he did so year by year, when she went up to the house of the Lord, so she provoked her; therefore she wept, and did not eat.  Then said Elkanah her husband to her, Hannah, why weepest thou?  And why eatest thou not?  And why is thy heart grieved?  Am not I better to thee than ten sons?  So Hannah rose up after they had eaten in Shiloh, and after they had drunk.  Now Eli the priest sat upon a seat by a post of the temple of the Lord.  And she was in bitterness of soul, and prayed unto the Lord, and wept sore.  And she vowed a vow, and said, O Lord of hosts, if thou wilt indeed look on the affliction of thine handmaid, and remember me, and not forget thine handmaid, but wilt give unto thine handmaid a man child, then I will give him unto the Lord all the days of his life, and there shall no razor come upon his head.  And it came to pass, as she continued praying before the Lord, that Eli marked her mouth.  How Hannah, she spake in her heart; only her lips moved; but her voice was not heard: therefore Eli thought she had been drunken.  And Eli said unto her, How long wilt thou be drunken?  Put away thy wine from thee.  And Hannah answered and said, No, my lord, I am a woman of a sorrowful spirit: I have drunk neither wine nor strong drink, but have poured out my soul before the Lord.  Count not thine handmaid for a daughter of Belial: for out of the abundance of my complaint and grief have I spoken hitherto.  Then Eli answered and said, Go in peace: and the God of Israel grant thee thy petition that thou hast asked of him.  And she said, Let thine handmaid find grace in thy sight.  So the woman went her way, and did eat, and her countenance was no more sad.  And they rose up in the morning early, and worshipped before the Lord, and returned, and came to their house to Ramah: and Elkanah knew Hannah his wife; and the Lord remembered her.  Wherefore it came to pass, when the time was come about after Hannah had conceived, that she bare a son, and called his name Samuel, saying, Because I have asked him of the Lord.  And the man Elkanah, and all his house, went up to offer unto the Lord the yearly sacrifice, and his vow.  But Hannah went not up, for she said unto her husband, I will not go up until the child be weaned, and then I will bring him, that he may appear before the Lord, and there abide forever.  And Elkanah her husband said unto her, Do what seemeth thee good; tarry until thou have weaned him; only the Lord establish his word.  So the woman abode, and gave her son suck until she weaned him.  And when she had weaned him, she took him up with her, with three bullocks, and one ephah of flour, and a bottle of wine, and brought him unto the house of the Lord in Shiloh: and the child was young.  And they slew a bullock, and brought the child to Eli.  And she said, Oh my lord, as thy soul liveth, my lord, I am the woman that stood by thee here, praying unto the Lord.  For this child a prayed; and the Lord hath given me my petition which I asked of him: Therefore also have I lent him to the Lord; as long as he liveth he shall be lent to the Lord.  And he worshipped the Lord there.  And Hannah prayed, and said, My heart rejoiceth in the Lord, mine horn is exalted in the Lord: my mouth is enlarged over mine enemies; because I rejoice in thy salvation.  There is none holy as the Lord: for there is none beside thee: neither is there any rock like our God.  Talk no more so exceeding proudly; let not arrogancy come out of your mouth: for the Lord is a God of knowledge, and by him actions are weighed.  The bows of the mighty men are broken, and they that stumbled are girded with strength.  They that were full have hired out themselves for bread; and they that were hungry ceased; so that the barren hath born seven; and she that hath many children is waxed feeble.  The Lord killeth, and maketh alive: he bringeth down to the grave, and bringeth up.  The Lord maketh poor, and maketh rich: he bringeth low, and lifteth up.  He raiseth up the poor out of the dust, and lifteth up the beggar from the dunghill, to set them among princes, and to make them inherit the throne of glory: for the pillars of the earth are the Lord’s, and he hath set the world upon them.  He will keep the feet of his saints, and the wicked shall be silent in darkness; for by strength shall no man prevail.  The adversaries of the Lord shall be broken to pieces; out of heaven shall he thunder upon them: the Lord shall judge the ends of the earth; and he shall give strength unto his king, and exhalt the horn of his anointed.  And Elkanah went to Ramah to his house.  And the child did minister unto the Lord before Eli the priest. (I Samuel 1:1-27, 2:1-11.)

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What an amazing testimony to the power of a merciful God who heard the plea of a simple woman and answered her prayer!  Her actions are a wonderful example of faith in action.  Let’s take a further look at this fascinating servant of God:  Hannah.

Data:

In the following questions, we will examine the basic circumstances in the story:

1. How would you describe Hannah?

2. Who was Hannah’s husband?

3. Are his feelings for Hannah made clear in the story?  If so, how would you describe them?

4. Where did Hannah live?

5. What part did the temple in Shiloh play in Hannah’s life?

6. Who was Penninah?

7. What was her relationship with Hannah?

8. Was the relationship a positive one?

Assessment:

The next questions will focus of the situation and Hannah’s thoughts and actions.

1. What was the source of Hannah’s heartbreak?

2. What was Hannah’s plea as she prayed at the temple?

3. What role did Eli play in Hannah’s story?

4. What were your thoughts about Hannah’s interaction with Eli as she defended herself against his assumptions?

5. Did Hannah display a sense of peace as she returned home following her journey to Shiloh?  Why or why not?

Response:

Let’s examine the outcome of Hannah’s faith in the power of God:

1. What happened to Hannah?

2. How did her promise affect her family?

3. Describe Hannah’s life with Elkanah following the birth of Samuel.

Evaluation:

1. What did Hannah have to overcome in order to fulfill God’s purpose for her life?

2. What did Hannah have to give up in service to God?

3. What was the result of Hannah’s faithfulness to the promise she made God?

4. What similarities do you see between Hannah and yourself?

5. Hannah was faced with a dilemma that, from a worldly view, was hopeless Are there situations in your life which seem hopeless?

6. Hannah was persecuted by Elkanah’s other wife.  Imagine bearing the weight of the verbal abuse Hannah endured.  How can we withstand verbal warfare from non-believers, or even other Christians?

7. The Bible tells us: “Wait on the Lord: be of good courage, and he shall strengthen thine heart: wait, I say, on the Lord” (Psalm 27:14).  What instruction is given in this verse?

8. What can you ascertain from the verse about the swiftness by which some needs may be met?

9. The Psalmist exhorts us to be courageous.  What is your definition of “courage”?  What does this verse mean to you?

Life Application: Are You Stingy With Your Gifts:

The Bible gives us many examples of sacrificial giving.  How wonderful it is when we sacrifice something special in order to honor God for His divine goodness and presence in our lives.  Consider the widow’s gift in the book of Luke.  In the midst of a multitude of wealthy givers, a poor widow dropped a mere two copper coins into the treasure.  In a monetary sense, this was a drop in the bucket compared to the gifts of the others; however, in the eyes of God, the quantity of the gift paled in comparison to the quality of it.  The widow gave all she had...and she gave it sacrificially to God.  Jesus recognized the genuine gift of the widow.  He said: “Truly I say to you, this poor widow put in more than all of them; for they all our of their surplus put into the offering; but she out of her poverty put in all that she had to live on.”

Now let’s examine our lives in terms of gifts and giving.  The Bible is very clear that God gives each of us specific gifts.  It is also necessary to realize God desires for you to use these special gifts to bring honor to Him and glory to His kingdom work before we can truly utilize the gifts that He’s given us...and they are many, ladies!  God has an amazing ability to bestow a multitude of gifts and to vary from person to person.  They cover a realm of abilities ranging from physical gifts to spiritual gifts and when combined, form a spectacular body of believers!

The focus of this Life Application will be to recognize the gifts God has given us which we previously may not have even considered worthy of mention: Home, Health, and Heart.  Why these, you may ask?  After all, they are things we take for granted…areas of our lives which might even seem mundane.  But taken in the context that everything is useful as we strive to do God’s will, these tiny parts of our lives add up to a mighty means of making a difference!  Praise God that He can take even the smallest part of us and make something wonderful!  Let’s explore the possibilities!

Gifts of Home:

Gifts of Home include a large part of what we consider “everyday life”.  These gifts range from the most basic, such as actual shelter, to the most extravagant.  The key to finding the purpose of the gift of your home lies in exploring the possibilities your home allows.  Let’s examine the God’s blueprint of your home.  In other words, why did He bless you with your dwelling?

1. 1.  Think of three ways you could use your home in service to God.  (These may include but are not limited to:   hosting a small-group Bible study, using your kitchen to prepare meals for those less fortunate, or offering your game room for a Youth Night.)

2. What obstacles must be overcome in order for you and your family to utilize your home space for God’s work (e.g. time management, housecleaning, etc.)?

3. Safety is a very important consideration when using your home for church events.  Take a moment to study the following checklist to determine if your home is a safe environment for others:

•Is my home covered by an insurance policy?

•Do I have pets which may pose a danger to others?

•Do I have fire extinguishers and a fire escape plan?

•Can I secure my valuables when others visit?

•Will a responsible adult be present at all times?

•Am I following the rules of my church’s Child Safety Policy?

So, as you look around your homes, imagine God’s plan for the space.  You may be sitting on a goldmine of opportunity for Kingdom work!  Step out of your comfort zone and open your hearts...and your homes...to others.  You will be surprised how soon your simple living space will become a pivotal part of your ministry!

Gifts of Health:

Have you ever felt lifted up, both physically and spiritually, after you’ve helped someone?  Many in the medical community stress the health benefits of helping others.  Some doctors, particularly Oncologists (physicians which specialize in treating cancer and other blood-related diseases) encourage their patients to participate in volunteer activities.  They have seen that volunteerism offers not only emotional benefits, but also leads to greater activity and mobility in their patients.

What happens, then, when we help others with a motivation greater than receiving a “thank you”?  How much greater will our spiritual reward be when we know we are helping others out of a sincere love for Christ?  You see, the “gift of health” God has blessed us with is a reciprocal gift.  We actually feel better when we help others!

For those in prime health, God has given you the ability and the stamina to do all sorts of things for His kingdom.  Your physical health enables you to go places and participate in activities requiring movement, strength, and physical endurance.  This is an amazing physical gift and your opportunities to help others is limitless!

For others, physical health can hinder activity.  You may be dealing with an illness or injury which prevents you from taking a physically active role in volunteer activities; however, do not let your physical inabilities put a damper on your spiritual possibilities!  You can still make a difference...and in turn, reap the benefits of helping others.

Here’s an example: Mrs. B. is an amazing young woman, but she has problems with mobility.  She must use a walker or cane when getting around.  It seems unlikely she will ever climb to the top of a house to help with roofing or to walk door to door with her church group to invite people to a neighborhood outreach, right?  In part, yes...but does she allow her physical constraints to prevent her from participating in the work of God?  Of course not!  On days she feels well, she helps her church’s building mission program by driving a truck to pick up supplies...or even lunch for the other workers.  And while she cannot physically walk door to door, she willingly gives her time and resources to make flyers for others to take on visitation days.  So while she may not have certain physical gifts of health, God has indeed blessed her with the gift of health He requires of her!  The key is finding what God wants you to accomplish with the physical abilities He has given you!

1. What are three physical abilities with which you have been blessed (e.g. the ability to walk, climb, paint, etc.)?

2. What physical limitations do you have which may hinder your service (e.g. in a wheelchair, hard of hearing, etc.)?

3. Now think about your abilities.  How are you willing to use the health God has blessed you with to work in His kingdom?

So you see, there is always a job for you in God’s kingdom work.  The key getting past whatever excuse you may be using to keep you from helping!  Don’t let inactivity prevent you from not only showing other the love of Christ, but also from receiving all the physical and spiritual blessings which stem from Godly service!  Get to work for God!

Gifts of Heart:

In this section, we will take a look at love.  More specifically, we will examine the gifts of the heart God has given us: family and friends.  We will also explore how showing love and respect to others can be a great and effective testimony of our ultimate service to God.

The emotional and physical love between a man and a woman has been the focus of generations.  Some people get so wrapped up in romantic love, though, that they lose sight of the opportunities awaiting them in Christian service.  Is it God’s intention for everyone to find a mate, you may ask?  Certainly not!  God has a wonderful plan for each of His children.  The key is discovering His purpose for your life!

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Let’s think about the following questions as we examine gift of giving and receiving love:

1. Is your daily walk, either married or unmarried honoring to God?  Why or why not?

2. What challenges do you face in your single or married life?

3. How can your life be a witness to others?

4. If you are married, do you and your spouse put God first in your lives?  If not, why?

5. How can you use your marital status to help others (e.g., could you be a singles’ group mentor or lead a couples’ Bible study)?

6. For those who have children, how can your family share the gift of God’s love with others?

7. What steps are you taking to ensure your children are brought up to know about the saving grace of Jesus Christ?

8. Your circle of friends was covered in depth in the segment on Orpah.  Reflect on three ways you can positively influence your friends.

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So, you see, God has placed each of us in unique positions to minister to those around us.  Not only that, but He has equipped us with a team of family and friends to work alongside as we share His love with others.  Take a moment to write down your thoughts of thanks for the blessings...the gifts of the heart...God has given you:

Let’s Wrap Things Up:

A very important point to recognize when considering Hannah’s gift was the fact she continued to nurture it.  The Bible tells us:  “But Samuel ministered before the Lord, being a child, girded with a linen ephod.  Moreover his mother made him a little coat, and brought it to him from year to year, when she came up with her husband to offer the yearly sacrifice.  And Eli blessed Elkanah and his wife, and said, The Lord give thee seed of this woman for the loan which is lent to the Lord.  And they went unto their own home.  And the Lord visited Hannah, so that she conceived, and bare three sons and two daughters.  And the child Samuel grew before the Lord” (I Samuel 18-21.)

You see, Hannah never lost her desire to impact the life of her son; however, she recognized that God had a divine plan for his life which superseded her own wants.  She never allowed selfishness to hinder her gift.  She cherished it...and in doing so, made a remarkable contribution to the kingdom of God.

The road we travel in life is not always easy.  It is no mystery the paths we take are frequently difficult to travel.  It is sometimes hard to remain patient when we are uncertain about the outcome of a situation.  Fortunately, God assures us He is always with us.  He promises us He will meet our needs.  Just remember...God may not answer our prayer or meet our need in the way we expect or desire.  Regardless of the decisions God makes in our lives, we can be assured He will always do what is best for us.

WEEK SIX

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A Benevolent Heart

Tabitha

Let’s think moment about the word benevolence.  Not only do we hear this word in the media in terms of public or international assistance, but many Christians and Christian organizations tack this term onto a multitude of projects and plans.

An explanation from Webster tells us that benevolence is “goodness or charity”.  More simply, it is a desire to help others.  As Christians, though, we must recognize our underlying reasons for helping others.  Not only that, we must understand that the key to having a truly benevolent spirit is our motivation.  What does that mean, you ask?  It’s this:  What are our underlying reasons for helping others...why do we do what we do?

Mission opportunities abound in our world today.  We don’t have to look far and wide to find hungry, hurting, and needy individuals and families.  Not only that, but it seems there is also a government agency or non-profit organization to sweep its all-encompassing arm across the masses and provide an “answer” for an unlimited list of problems.  As a matter of fact, philanthropy has become a such a huge industry of its own with billions of dollars finding a way through a maze of charitable contributions, funds, and tax write-offs.  Individuals seeking opportunities to help are sometimes confounded...bombarded, even...with choices.  In light of the many opportunities to help others, though, we have to turn back to our original question: Why do we do what we do?

This is where motivation comes into play.  As Christians, we have to prepare our hearts and minds to recognize opportunities to help others as a means to further the kingdom of God.  What does this mean?  It’s this: “Whether therefore ye eat, or drink, or whatsoever ye do, do all to the glory of God” (I Corinthians 10:31.)

The Bible clearly tells us we are not saved by our works; however, time and time again, it gives us instructions to be busy doing the work of the Lord.  We should be compelled by the Spirit of God living in us to be involved in the work at hand...most importantly, the Kingdom Work!

The following passage from the book of Acts gives us a wonderful example of a follower of Christ involved in true benevolence.  Let’s take a look at the story of Tabitha:

(Acts 9:36-42)

“Now there was at Joppa a certain disciple named Tabitha, which by interpretation is called Dorcas: this woman was full of good works and almsdeeds which she did.  And it came to pass in those days, that she was sick, and died: whom when they had washed, they laid her in an upper chamber.  And forasmuch as Lydda was nigh to Joppa, and the disciples had heard that Peter was there, they sent unto him two men, desiring him that he would not delay to come to them.  Then Peter arose and went with them.  When he was come, they brought him into the upper chamber: and all the widows stood by him weeping, and shewing the coats and garments which Dorcas made, while she was with them.  But Peter put them all forth, and kneeled down, and prayed; and turning him to the body said, Tabitha, arise.  And she opened her eyes: and when she saw Peter, she sat up.  And he gave her his hand and lifted her up, and when he had called the saints and widows, presented her alive.  And it was known throughout all Joppa; and many believed in the Lord.”   (Acts 9:36-42)

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Using the D.A.R.E model, let’s take a look at the life of Tabitha and how modeling our lives after aspects of hers can be beneficial to our friendships.

Data:

Take a moment to think about what we have gleaned about the life of Tabitha (Dorcas).

1. List four things you discovered about this woman (e.g. occupation, lifestyle, etc.)

2. It is recorded that Tabitha was a disciple.  What do you think the term meant for a female during that time in history?

3. Imagine some of the good works or almsdeeds Tabitha might have performed and list them in your journal.

Assessment:

1. What situation did Peter find when he entered the city of Lydda?

2. What request did Tabitha’s friends make to Peter?

3. In what ways did they present their plea?

Response:

1. What tragedy befell Tabitha?

2. How did Peter handle the situation following the miraculous circumstances of Tabitha’s healing?

Evaluation:

1. How did the diligence of Tabitha’s friends influence the story?

2. Take a moment to consider the events of the days following the miracle.  Write your thoughts in your journal.

Life Application:

The Bible tells us Tabitha was a disciple.  Not only was she a servant engaged in spreading the Good News of Christ, but she was also deeply involved in issues of benevolence in her community.  These were her spiritual callings.  But let’s take a closer look at Tabitha’s practical gift: She was a gifted seamstress.  The key to her ability to translate that gift into service is commitment.  She took something which might have seemed mundane and used it to reach numerous people.  She propelled a practical ability into a very special and far-reaching spiritual ministry to the people in her city.

How many of us have practical gifts we use in our daily lives but which others have neither the ability nor the understanding of what we might consider the simplest of tasks?  Here are a few examples:

•A friend of mine has gifts similar to those of Tabitha.  She is a wonder with a sewing machine and can transform a skein of yarn into beautiful hats and scarves.  She has taken the word of Christ to thousands of cancer patients by simply putting a Bible verse tag on the hats she so lovingly crochets throughout the year.  The result?  While she occasionally hears from some of the patients and routinely receives thanks from the oncologist and his staff, she may never know the far-reaching effects of her ministry; however, she knows this truth:  Not only do these patients who are struggling with the physical and emotional recognize someone thought enough of them to make them something that comes in handy during their rigorous chemotherapy and radiation regimens, but they know the person who so lovingly created their hats did so with the love of Christ.  The rest is in God’s hands.  The seed has been planted!

•Another friend spends her time and money organizing medical mission trips.  While she works full-time as a nurse, she also finds time to devote her energies to reaching the lost for Jesus as she delivers supplies and administers much-needed medical care to families in South America.

•A woman dear to my heart is unable to travel or attend church, but she faithfully sends a check to a children’s orphanage each month and touches lives each day by sending birthday, get-well, and “thinking of you” cards to a host of acquaintances.

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So, you see, while time, money, and hard work are at times necessary for certain ministries, these entities are not the basis for a successful ministry.  The motivation behind your actions is what makes a real difference in benevolence…and what ultimately touches the lives of others.  It is this quality which will reach your friends and families…and in turn, enable you to be the light God has called you to be!

Think about the needs in your own community and take a moment to consider ways to involve yourself in benevolence.  As you know, people have so many needs it is sometimes difficult to meet every one.  For some, providing the basic food, clothing, and shelter seem too insurmountable, especially in today’s economic climate.  For others, needs for spiritual and emotional guidance top the list.  What doesn’t change, however, is the fact we live in a lost and hurting world.  We will never be able to meet every need.  We can make a difference, though.  It is our calling as followers of Christ.

The Bible tells us, “For the poor shall never cease out of the land: therefore, I command thee, saying, Thou shalt open thine hand wide unto thy brother, to thy poor, and to thy needy, in thy land.” (Deuteronomy 15:11)

The key to following this command is recognizing the opportunities awaiting you and focusing your thoughts and actions on becoming involved.  It’s time to step off the sidelines and get into the game, ladies!

To simplify our opportunities, let’s break things down into categories: Physical Needs, Prayer/Praise Needs, and Personal Needs.  For each section, I want you to list at least two ways you could assist someone in your community with the following needs (within the scope of your family, friend-base, or church):

Physical Needs

•Food

•Shelter

•Clothing

Prayer & Praise Needs

•Sickness

•Guidance

•Encouragement

Personal Needs

•Financial

•Marital

•Employment

Let’s Wrap Things Up:

Take a moment to read James 1:2-8.  Summarize these verses in your own words.  Does this change how you might approach situations in the future?  Many times, we expect God to work on what has become the world’s standard: a drive-through, quick-fix answer.  If the faucet is broken, we call the plumber.  If sickness occurs, we expect a pill to remedy our problem.  But let’s face it.  We can never have a fulfilling life, either physical or spiritual, without first petitioning our heavenly Father for guidance.

The Bible tells us:  “Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God.  And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.”  (Philippians 4:6-7).

As the task of considering your ministry opportunities becomes overwhelming, keep these words in your heart.  God will give you the desire to help others.  Most importantly, as you open yourself to the needs of those around you, you will begin to learn that the key to a mission-based ministry is finding an area where your talents gel with meeting a need.

While the multi-faceted Tabitha might have been able to play a role in each need we see in our list, (and probably did in her own way), we are only told of her skill with making coats and other garments.  You can be assured that when you become involved with the work of the Lord, though, your efforts will not be in vain.  Not only that, but you will begin to see the world in a more missions-minded perspective.  With each situation you find in your daily walk, you will be able to recognize a need, determine a plan of action, and evaluate what gifts or resources are at your disposal to meet the need.

Final Discussion:

Thank you so much for sharing the past six weeks in this study.  It is my prayer that throughout this walk in the shoes of some amazing women from history, you have gained some insight into how you can apply the lessons we have learned to your own lives…to your family relationships, to your friendships, and most importantly, to your own personal relationship with your Savior, Jesus Christ.

It is no secret each of us has trials we face on a daily basis.  As we saw in the lives of these women through relating our own situations with theirs, though, we can understand that we each have an awesome ability to cope, to adjust, and to even tackle the situations of life head-on!

Don’t allow yourselves to be coaxed into a life contrary to the path God has chosen for you, as Orpah did.  Instead, seek God’s will in your life!  Be an Esther and willingly allow yourself to be used for His Kingdom!  Take the lessons of Deborah, and judge yourself according to the expectations God has outlined in the Bible.  As Rahab overcame a life of sin and forged a destiny for herself and her family, you can change the course of your own life and get past the hurdles placed in your path.  As Hannah battled the hopelessness of infertility by giving her life over to God, you can find peace when the helplessness of your situation is overwhelming.  As Tabitha lived a life of service, so, too, can you give of yourself to others in service to the Lord!

God is good.  His mercy endures forever.  Do not get so wrapped up in your personal pursuits and problems that you fail to take note of those around you.  Put God first in your lives, and your priorities will be profoundly changed.  Give your family and friends the love, the respect, and the attention they need and deserve, and you will see these relationships blossom.  Not only will your family and friends benefit from your involvement in their lives, but you will be astounded at the impact of having Godly friendships and relationships in your own lives!  God has blessed you with this life…so ENJOY…and give Him the glory!

Acknowledgments

To my amazing and supportive husband, Wesley...you are a gift.  To Madison, my talented song-bird, thank you for your insight and patience with my questions…you always take time to listen to ideas and critique book covers even though I know you would rather be playing your guitar.  What a daughter!  To friends and family who “Walk the Walk”:  missionaries Bill and Tammy Loveless, who inspire us with their stories;  my friend and mentor, Delilah Baxter;  my parents and in-laws who love the Lord and who are still working on “Raising Me Right”.  Thank you all for your tireless service to the kingdom of God.  Finally, to Jesus for His perfect gift of salvation.  I am amazed and truly grateful for this blessing.

About the Author:

HEATHER HUNT is the author of four inspirational romance novels, including the bestselling Gifts of Life and the romantic comedy, Aging with Gracie.  She also writes children’s fiction under the pseudonym H. K. Hunt.  She is the founder of FaithFashionistaᵀᴹ and the Church Chicksᵀᴹ mentor program.  A pastor’s wife, mother, and nurse, she lives with her family in Georgia, the setting for many of her novels.  You can visit her at:

FaithFashionista.com

HeatherKingHunt.wordpress.com

HKHunt.wordpress.com

Other Books by Heather Hunt:

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The Gift Series:

Gifts of Life

Gifts of Hope

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Welcome to Manhattan:

Aging with Gracie

More Shabby Than Chic

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(Writing as H.K. Hunt)

Don’t Cry, Scarlett

Counting Cupcakes

Silly Sea Sightings

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Coming Soon to Kindle:

The Gift Series:

Sara’s Gifts

(Hawk and Sara)

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Welcome to Manhattan:

Abby’s Rocky Road

and

The Tori Chronicles